Words for Wellbeing - Edition 10 - July 15, 2021
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Welcome to Words for Wellbeing
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Malala Day, July 12th
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#SAYNOTOVAPING
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Overcoming Self-Criticism with Get Psyched
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Mojo Crowe - Ben Crowe, Mindset Coach
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Learning Diversity Fornightly Column
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Screen Time: Making Healthy Choices
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Mindfulness Tips from Teen Breathe
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Mindfulness @ Rice
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Fit4Life, Wellbeing @ Emmanuel College
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Fit Bits
Welcome to Words for Wellbeing
Welcome to your fortnightly Wellbeing newsletter. You’ll find new information to enhance your health and wellness to keep you Fit4Life. These will include shining a spotlight on signature character strengths; top tips from the science of wellbeing; Conversations on the Couch with our Emmanuel family; and, loads more. We hope you enjoy them and we’re happy to take requests if there’s something in the wellbeing realm you’d love to learn more about.
We welcome you back to term 3 celebrating Malala Yousafzai, the incredible Pakistani advocate for the education of girls and women. Do you ever listen to that inner critic in your mind? Well, you'll get a lot out of Get Psyched's YouTube tips for quietening that voice with compassion focussed therapy. We share more myth busting information about vaping and an incredible article linking the dopamine reward pathways in our brain and our screen time - it's a must read for everyone. Learning Diversity & Ash Barty's Mindset Coach talk mindset, and of course, we have some mindfulness tips and fun Fit Fits.
Welcome to Term 3 to our entire Emmanuel Community and please enjoy everything on offer in this edition of Words for Wellbeing.
Malala Day, July 12th
On July 12th, the birthday of Malala Yousafzai, we celebrate her life and the hope she instills in all of us that change only requires one voice. To find out more about Malala and her work, go to malala.org.
1997
I was born in Mingora, Pakistan on July 12, 1997.
Welcoming a baby girl is not always cause for celebration in Pakistan — but my father, Ziauddin Yousafzai, was determined to give me every opportunity a boy would have.
2008
My father was a teacher and ran a girls’ school in our village.
I loved school. But everything changed when the Taliban took control of our town in Swat Valley. The extremists banned many things — like owning a television and playing music — and enforced harsh punishments for those who defied their orders. And they said girls could no longer go to school.
In January 2008 when I was just 11 years old, I said goodbye to my classmates, not knowing when — if ever — I would see them again.
2012
I spoke out publicly on behalf of girls and our right to learn. And this made me a target.
In October 2012, on my way home from school, a masked gunman boarded my school bus and asked, “Who is Malala?” He shot me on the left side of my head.
I woke up 10 days later in a hospital in Birmingham, England. The doctors and nurses told me about the attack — and that people around the world were praying for my recovery.
2014
After months of surgeries and rehabilitation, I joined my family in our new home in the U.K.
It was then I knew I had a choice: I could live a quiet life or I could make the most of this new life I had been given. I determined to continue my fight until every girl could go to school.
With my father, who has always been my ally and inspiration, I established Malala Fund, a charity dedicated to giving every girl an opportunity to achieve a future she chooses. In recognition of our work, I received the Nobel Peace Prize in December 2014 and became the youngest-ever Nobel laureate.
2018
I began studying Philosophy, Politics and Economics at the University of Oxford.
And every day I fight to ensure all girls receive 12 years of free, safe, quality education.
I travel to many countries to meet girls fighting poverty, wars, child marriage and gender discrimination to go to school. Malala Fund is working so that their stories, like mine, can be heard around the world.
We invest in developing country educators and activists, like my father, through Malala Fund’s Education Champion Network. And we hold leaders accountable for their promises to girls.
2020
I graduated from Oxford University!
I will always treasure my time at Lady Margaret Hall — the lectures, club meetings, balls and late nights (some spent finishing papers, some just chatting with friends in the dorm). Although a global pandemic meant I spent my final months as a university student in my parents' house, I'm grateful that I was able to complete my education. After taking time to relax, I am more dedicated than ever to my fight for girls.
With more than 130 million girls out of school today, there is more work to be done. I hope you will join my fight for education and equality. Together, we can create a world where all girls can learn and lead.
#SAYNOTOVAPING
https://www.healthpromotion.com.au/saynotovaping/
We're pleased to be sharing resources from Health Promotion regarding the health risks associated with vaping.
Overcoming Self-Criticism with Get Psyched
Overcoming self-criticism can be tough but utilising compassion focussed therapy to beat your inner critic can be really effective. Self-criticism is one of the biggest barriers to overcoming challenges with mental health. We all have an inner self-critic to some degree, but managing it appropriately is vital. In today's video from GetPsyched, we take a look at how to overcome self-criticism utilising CFT - Compassion Focussed Therapy - and how the main principles of CFT can help you beat your inner self-critic.
Mojo Crowe - Ben Crowe, Mindset Coach
In case you haven't heard it yet, Ash Barty is the Women's Wimbeldon Tennis Champion for 2021 and she didn't do it alone. In 2018, Ash engaged the help of mindset coach Ben Crowe, and we can't get enough of his succinct simplistic logic when it comes to applying mindset strategies to life. Here is a snippet of an interview he did with ABC about working with Ash, but to find out more, go to his website https://www.mojocrowe.com/.
Learning Diversity Fornightly Column
Inclusive Education: Essential for some, but good for ALL!
Fixed Mindset vs Growth Mindset - Carol Dweck from Stanford University in USA writes in her book - “Mindset: The New Psychology of Success — an inquiry into the power of our beliefs, both conscious and unconscious, and how changing even the simplest of them can have profound impact on nearly every aspect of our live”.
With Fixed Mindset, we assume that our character, intelligence and creativity are all set and we can’t change them in any way. We often believe that inherent intelligence is a measure of success.
A Growth Mindset thrives on challenge and uses failure as a ‘heartening springboard for growth’ Dweck, C 2007.
Feeling stressed? Pressured? If we change our words, we can change our mindset. Try one or two of these...
Screen Time: Making Healthy Choices
by Trevor Haynes
figures by Rebecca Clements
https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2018/dopamine-smartphones-battle-time/
Never Alone
If you’ve ever misplaced your phone, you may have experienced a mild state of panic until it’s been found. About 73% of people claim to experience this unique flavor of anxiety, which makes sense when you consider that adults in the US spend an average of 2-4 hours per day tapping, typing, and swiping on their devices—that adds up to over 2,600 daily touches. Most of us have become so intimately entwined with our digital lives that we sometimes feel our phones vibrating in our pockets when they aren’t even there.
While there is nothing inherently addictive about smartphones themselves, the true drivers of our attachments to these devices are the hyper-social environments they provide. Thanks to the likes of Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, and others, smartphones allow us to carry immense social environments in our pockets through every waking moment of our lives. Though humans have evolved to be social—a key feature to our success as a species—the social structures in which we thrive tend to contain about 150 individuals. This number is orders of magnitude smaller than the 2 billion potential connections we carry around in our pockets today. There is no doubt that smartphones provide immense benefit to society, but their cost is becoming more and more apparent. Studies are beginning to show links between smartphone usage and increased levels of anxiety and depression, poor sleep quality, and increased risk of car injury or death. Many of us wish we spent less time on our phones but find it incredibly difficult to disconnect. Why are our smartphones so hard to ignore?
The Levers in Our Brains – Dopamine and social reward
Dopamine is a chemical produced by our brains that plays a starring role in motivating behavior. It gets released when we take a bite of delicious food, when we have sex, after we exercise, and, importantly, when we have successful social interactions. In an evolutionary context, it rewards us for beneficial behaviors and motivates us to repeat them.
The human brain contains four major dopamine “pathways,” or connections between different parts of the brain that act as highways for chemical messages called neurotransmitters. Each pathway has its own associated cognitive and motor (movement) processes. Three of these pathways—the mesocortical, mesolimbic, and nigrostriatal pathways—are considered our “reward pathways” and have been shown to be dysfunctional in most cases of addiction. They are responsible for the release of dopamine in various parts of the brain, which shapes the activity of those areas. The fourth, the tuberoinfundibular pathway, regulates the release of a hormone called prolactin that is required for milk production.
While the reward pathways (Figure 1) are distinct in their anatomical organization, all three become active when anticipating or experiencing rewarding events. In particular, they reinforce the association between a particular stimulus or sequence of behaviors and the feel-good reward that follows. Every time a response to a stimulus results in a reward, these associations become stronger through a process called long-term potentiation. This process strengthens frequently used connections between brain cells called neurons by increasing the intensity at which they respond to particular stimuli.
Although not as intense as hit of cocaine, positive social stimuli will similarly result in a release of dopamine, reinforcing whatever behavior preceded it. Cognitive neuroscientists have shown that rewarding social stimuli—laughing faces, positive recognition by our peers, messages from loved ones—activate the same dopaminergic reward pathways. Smartphones have provided us with a virtually unlimited supply of social stimuli, both positive and negative. Every notification, whether it’s a text message, a “like” on Instagram, or a Facebook notification, has the potential to be a positive social stimulus and dopamine influx.
The Hands that Pull – Reward prediction errors and variable reward schedules
Because most social media platforms are free, they rely on revenue from advertisers to make a profit. This system works for everyone involved at first glance, but it has created an arms race for your attention and time. Ultimately, the winners of this arms race will be those who best use their product to exploit the features of the brain’s reward systems.
Reward prediction errors
Research in reward learning and addiction have recently focused on a feature of our dopamine neurons called reward prediction error (RPE) encoding. These prediction errors serve as dopamine-mediated feedback signals in our brains (Figure 2). This neurological feature is something casino owners have used to their advantage for years. If you’ve ever played slots, you’ll have experienced the intense anticipation while those wheels are turning—the moments between the lever pull and the outcome provide time for our dopamine neurons to increase their activity, creating a rewarding feeling just by playing the game. It would be no fun otherwise. But as negative outcomes accumulate, the loss of dopamine activity encourages us to disengage. Thus, a balance between positive and negative outcomes must be maintained in order to keep our brains engaged.
Variable reward schedules
How do social media apps take advantage of this dopamine-driven learning strategy? Similar to slot machines, many apps implement a reward pattern optimized to keep you engaged as much as possible. Variable reward schedules were introduced by psychologist B.F. Skinner in the 1930’s. In his experiments, he found that mice respond most frequently to reward-associated stimuli when the reward was administered after a varying number of responses, precluding the animal’s ability to predict when they would be rewarded. Humans are no different; if we perceive a reward to be delivered at random, and if checking for the reward comes at little cost, we end up checking habitually (e.g. gambling addiction). If you pay attention, you might find yourself checking your phone at the slightest feeling of boredom, purely out of habit. Programmers work very hard behind the screens to keep you doing exactly that.
The Battle for Your Time
If you’ve been a Facebook user for more than a few years, you’ve probably noticed that the site has been expanding its criteria for notifications. When you first join Facebook, your notification center revolves around the initial set of connections you make, creating that crucial link between notification and social reward. But as you use Facebook more and begin interacting with various groups, events, and artists, that notification center will also become more active. After a while, you’ll be able to open the app at any time and reasonably expect to be rewarded. When paired with the low cost of checking your phone, you have a pretty strong incentive to check in whenever you can.
Other examples highlight a more deliberate effort to monopolize your time. Consider Instagram’s implementation of a variable-ratio reward schedule. As explained in this 60 Minutes interview, Instagram’s notification algorithms will sometimes withhold “likes” on your photos to deliver them in larger bursts. So when you make your post, you may be disappointed to find less responses than you expected, only to receive them in a larger bunch later on. Your dopamine centers have been primed by those initial negative outcomes to respond robustly to the sudden influx of social appraisal. This use of a variable reward schedule takes advantage of our dopamine-driven desire for social validation, and it optimizes the balance of negative and positive feedback signals until we’ve become habitual users.
Question Your Habits
Smartphones and social media apps aren’t going anywhere anytime soon, so it is up to us as the users to decide how much of our time we want to dedicate to them. Unless the advertisement-based profit model changes, companies like Facebook will continue to do everything they can to keep your eyes glued to the screen as often as possible. And by using algorithms to leverage our dopamine-driven reward circuitry, they stack the cards—and our brains—against us. But if you want to spend less time on your phone, there are a variety strategies to achieve success. Doing things like disabling your notifications for social media apps and keeping your display in black and white will reduce your phone’s ability to grab and hold your attention. Above all, mindful use of the technology is the best tool you have. So the next time you pick up your phone to check Facebook, you might ask yourself, “Is this really worth my time?”
Trevor Haynes is a research technician in the Department of Neurobiology at Harvard Medical School.
Mindfulness Tips from Teen Breathe
Try these tips for mindfully enjoying some time to yourself.
Unexpected free time can be a blessing. While the temptation might be to fall back on the same old habits – turning on the tv, catching up on the washing, scrolling through Facebook – you can bring positivity into your day by trying something new. Be inspired by our top ten tips to make the most of your free time.
1. DECLUTTER YOUR ROOM
The KonMari method of tidying is a popular way to declutter your home, created by author Marie Kondo. The core of the KonMari method involves taking each item in your room and sincerely asking yourself whether it ‘sparks joy’. The old jumper at the bottom of the wardrobe you never wear, the layers of clutter in drawers you never open – with KonMari, it’s all gone. Remember to recycle what you can, or why not earn yourself some cash at the same time?
2. DRAWING EXERCISE
Walk around the room with a sketchbook and draw a portrait of the first face or animal you see. Can you give him or her a name? Or try some mindful drawing. Look around you and choose a random detail or object to observe. This could be something as simple as the grain on a wooden table. Look for others and sketch their patterns. How many different ones can you find?
3. MAKE YOUR OWN RECIPE BOOK
Collecting all of your favourite recipes into one place will show you how much you can do. You could illustrate them with coloured pens or images, and leave blank pages for those dream bakes you’ve not yet conquered, ready to motivate you to try them out. Writing out your own recipes means you can add all your personal tweaks and touches, too.
4. CRAFT PHOTO FRAMES
Plain cardboard photo frames are easy to get hold of, or you can make your own from scratch. Pick out your favourite photos and use whatever you like to decorate the frames – pink pompoms, beads, even drawing in your own expressive patterns. Think about how the photo makes you feel, or what reminds you of the people in the photo. Are you both laughing, or is the image peaceful and calm? Handcrafted frames can be as expressive and personal as the image itself.
5. COOK FROM A DIFFERENT CUISINE
Trying a recipe from a cuisine you’ve never explored will open you up to new flavours, techniques and ingredients you might never have tried before. For Japanese, you could try a tofu dish or the classic miso soup. For Greek, give a lamb dish a go, such as kleftiko or a stew.
6. MEDITATE
Meditation can help you relax and be in the present moment, and allow you to, for a time, let go of your everyday anxieties. This is the perfect opportunity to find some time to focus on yourself and slow down your brain. Find a distraction-free, quiet space, sit on the floor with your back straight (sitting on a fl at sofa cushion is perfect for this), set a timer (whether 10 minutes or an hour), listen to the birds, wind or rain, and concentrate on your breathing.
7. CREATE A SCRAPBOOK
Inspiration for scrapbooks can come from anywhere – you can use photos of you and your friends, create collages of places you want to travel to, or just use images and crafts to pay homage to your favourite colour palettes. You could dedicate a page to each of your favourite things – the beach, your dog, freshly baked cakes. Building a scrapbook is therapeutic, and there’s no pressure to make it look a certain way. It’s an expression of you!
8. PAMPER YOURSELF
Taking the time to look after yourself can do wonders for your mood and happiness. Turn off your phone, run a bath and do whatever makes you feel most comfortable: add bath salts or play your favourite relaxing music. For even more revitalising vibes, try an exfoliating face mask to remove the dead skin cells on your face and leave you completely refreshed.
9. START A MOOD JOURNAL
Journals are wonderful things no matter what you write in them. They record memories of a period in your life, and whether it’s positive or negative, it can be cathartic and comforting to put your thoughts down on paper. An emotion journal is a great way to take hold of the present moment and freeze it – it can also help you track your moods, which could lead to you learning more about yourself and your emotional patterns.
10. WRITE THANK-YOU LETTERS
Writing out letters of gratitude to the people in your life is an emotional and comforting exercise. Even if you don’t end up sending them, taking the time to ‘thank’ the people in your life for what they do for you will remind you of the love and support that surrounds you, and if you do send them, your words and thoughtfulness will bring positivity to their day, too.
Mindfulness @ Rice
Fit4Life, Wellbeing @ Emmanuel College
Your 2021 Fit4Life Wellbeing Team are, from left to right, Jodie Fleming (School Psychologist), Rachele Sloane (Wellbeing coordinator), Claire Wrigley (Assistant Principal Students Wellbeing), Tracey van Rooy (Student Wellbeing Intake Officer). You can look forward to meeting us all through the Conversations on the Couch in coming editions, or, in person anytime!
We have moved but we are still located on McAuley campus. You’ll now find us upstairs in the Convent, at the end of the Year 7 corridor, directly above the Heritage room.
Can’t follow my instructions? Here are some videos coming from The Stage, the front office, and from the Year 7 corridor. Simply click on the links for a speedy tour.
We also have spaces on Rice and Goold campuses. Teachers, parents and guardians and students are all able to refer students to us. If you'd like to catch up, simply email us at wellbeing@emmanuel.vic.edu.au
Fit Bits
Our weekly Fit Bits links are designed to energise, motivate and encourage us to take brain breaks and mindful moments throughout each day for our minds and our bodies.
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Motivational Music:
We hope you’ve found something useful in this edition of Words for Wellbeing.
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Stay safe and well everyone.
Love from your Wellbeing Team